Hopeful
or wishful? These words seem to be synonymous, right? One could say either I
hope, or I wish, we could have our Thanksgiving dinner earlier this year, and
either would work for the sake of a conversation. But I believe we have smashed
these words together, and they need to be pulled apart and set back on their
own.
Wishing
has at its center, optimism. As an optimist one believes that either they can or that someone else will. Wishful thinking then can be super optimistic, and
although it might offer a rosier view of a personally hoped for future, it is
really no more than just that. Optimism at the end of the day then is when we
put our hope in ourself, someone, or something else.
Now this
wishful thinking can appear hopeful, but true hope has its confidence in God,
so as wishful thinkers think they can or that others will, a person with true
hope knows God will. So an optimist might look at a flat tire and say:
"Sure, but it is only flat on the bottom." While someone who has
their hope in God on the other hand, is not cued by circumstance and will look
for God in any and all situations. True hope also has an odd calculator - the
worse things get, true hope grows stronger and more confident.
"More
than that, we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces
endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope,"
(Romans 5:3, 4 ESV)
Hope
stops being wishful thinking when we put it where it belongs: IN God. When we put hope in anything
else, well that is simply wishful thinking.
In His grip,
Pastor Pat
